How not to lose the man she loved?

By finding a new love, you're so happy at first, but soon begins to fear that man will find someone better. This regularity. We are always afraid of losing what we are too expensive. That's what they think about this family psychologists: man will never fall in love with a woman just because of the more attractive appearance. Beauty, of course, attract the attention of the stronger sex, but not enough to for them to throw a loved one. Look around in the world so many beautiful, but lonely women! And all because of their beauty nothing hidden. Man strives to be close with an interesting personality. On the one rolls no scandals, do not create any problems and here is the whole harmonious personality.
So the best way to keep your favorite number - self-improvement. Continuous development, training, active life position - this is something that will not allow him to be disappointed in you. Filling with new knowledge and skills you updated and externally, each time brought before a man in a new guise.



We are inconsistent in their life. What?


The crisis of the first year of marriage - well-established psychological term. It was at this time, people had begun to live under one roof, are the so-called period lapping.
He fisted, you spender, he is an owl, you're a lark, he was sloppy, you're pathologically neat ... It seems that when such differences in the character and way of life can not continue to be together. And the hardest thing in this situation - to force himself to give partner. After all, everyone considers their point of view correct. Understand: parting with current partner in the future you stolkneshsya the same problems.
Try to sort things out calmly and constructively, without reproach. Often consults with a man, talks way out of the dispute. Try to avoid the clerk tone and does not bring in referees around. Typically, after a year and a half life fades into the background.

How do I leave?


If the relationship was given a crack and keep them from both of you have no strength, try to go first. Say that you had better give up, even if your feelings have not faded away.
Do not go with the scandal, do not blame him. Try to find a good word. Say, for example, that you want some time to be alone to think. Suppose that you and herself in many ways was not right. Do not hesitate. Otherwise it will be like a game or intimidation. Better to offer to remain friends. So you will have the opportunity from time to time to communicate.
If the separation takes place at his initiative, in any case do not try to hold him. Do not cry and beg. Do not collect his suitcase. This will leave a painful memory in his track, which hurt the next time to bring this same suitcase back. Do not return all his gifts and do not call in the presence of a former lover.
Do your best to emphasize the incompleteness of the situation. If you learn without reproach and insults keep favorite at least one day, you will be much more likely to save a relationship for life ...

His nocturnal erections. This is connected with erotic fantasies?


For one night, men often have erections 4-6 times for 10-15 minutes. That is nearly 20% of total sleep. This is a spontaneous erection, and with the erotic dreams she has nothing to do. While many couples often have conversations on this topic. Woman suspects man that he had dreams about having sex with another. Involuntary erections necessary to arterial blood in the penis updated, in order to maintain vital organ in "working condition". There is also a version that the cause of morning erection is a trivial extension of the walls of the bladder.

Check yourself


How do I know whether I am happy in marriage?

In the words of Karamzin, without good fathers not have a good education, in spite of all schools. Therefore, to learn how the things will family life, look first to their family. Is more likely that your marriage will, if:

1. Your parents are happy in marriage.
2. Have you had a happy childhood.
3. There was no conflict with her mother.
4. Your home discipline was firm but not hard.
5. You were very attached to her mother or father.
6. There was no conflict with his father.
7. Parents honestly say to you about sex.
8. You're a positive attitude toward sex, free from disgust, fear and resentment.